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Cultivating Relational Wisdom in Therapy: Embracing Connection, Loneliness, and Authentic Growth

Introduction Relationships are the lifeblood of our human experience. They are the threads that weave together our stories, shaping not only who we are but also how we move through the world. From our earliest days, it is through relationships that we learn to feel safe, to express ourselves, to...
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Book Review: Trans Love by Freiya Benson

Introduction Trans Love: An Anthology of Transgender and Non-Binary Voices edited by Freiya Benson is more than just a collection of stories—it’s a lifeline, a source of validation, and a testament to the profound ways love can manifest in the lives of transgender and non-binary individuals. As a psychotherapist who...
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Book Review: Relationally Queer by Silva Neves and Dominic Davies

Introduction As a therapist dedicated to providing compassionate and inclusive mental health support to Two Spirit, trans, nonbinary, and queer adults, I was eager to delve into Relationally Queer by Silva Neves and Dominic Davies. This book, part of the Pink Therapy series, is a groundbreaking exploration of gender, sex,...
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Book Review: Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern

Introduction For those curious about therapy, attachment theory, and the complexities of consensual nonmonogamy (CNM), “Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy” by Jessica Fern is a revolutionary read. As a psychotherapist and expert in nonmonogamous relationships, Fern provides a detailed exploration of how attachment theory—traditionally applied to monogamous relationships—can be...
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The Possible Impact of Gender Transition on Close Relationships: Strategies for Navigating Change and Strengthening Bonds

Navigating close relationships during gender transition can be a wonderful experience and sometimes challenging experience for partnerships. It is a time of significant change and self-discovery, and it can present unique challenges to partners, family members, and friends. Communication, empathy, and education are crucial components of navigating these challenges and...
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Navigating Divorce for 2STGNC+ Parents: Building Resilience, Connection, and Self-Affirmation

Introduction Divorce is rarely straightforward, and for 2STGNC+ (Two-Spirit, Transgender, Gender Nonconforming, and Queer) parents, the process often brings unique layers of complexity. As relationships shift, the end of a partnership—whether a marriage or long-term relationship—can unsettle not only our sense of self but also our family structure. For those...
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Relationship Check-ins: Strengthening Communication in Trans and/or Queer Partnerships

Introduction Relationships are living, breathing entities that require intentional care, attention, and thoughtful communication to thrive, particularly within the trans* and queer community. These partnerships are often beautifully diverse, encompassing varying identities, experiences, and ways of loving—whether in monogamous, polyamorous, or other relational structures. However, the intersectional realities faced by...
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Book Review: The Reflective Workbook for Partners of Transgender People by D. M. Maynard

Introduction Navigating the complexities of gender transition can be a transformative journey not only for the person transitioning but for their loved ones as well. D. M. Maynard’s The Reflective Workbook for Partners of Transgender People offers an invaluable resource for partners, providing guidance, reflection, and practical exercises to help...
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