Introduction As I sit and read the poetry of Mary Oliver in the quiet embrace of the Pacific Northwest, where cedar trees stand like steadfast guardians and the ground beneath is soft with the dampness of autumn, I find myself reflecting on the profound journey of grief and loss. Last...Read More

Introduction Relationships are the lifeblood of our human experience. They are the threads that weave together our stories, shaping not only who we are but also how we move through the world. From our earliest days, it is through relationships that we learn to feel safe, to express ourselves, to...Read More

Introduction Trans Sex by Lucie Fielding, PhD, MA, LMHC, is a groundbreaking text that offers a transformative perspective on the often overlooked sexual lives and erotic embodiments of trans and nonbinary people. In a world where trans and nonbinary narratives are frequently reduced to stories of dysphoria, trauma, and medical...Read More

Introduction Trans Love: An Anthology of Transgender and Non-Binary Voices edited by Freiya Benson is more than just a collection of stories—it’s a lifeline, a source of validation, and a testament to the profound ways love can manifest in the lives of transgender and non-binary individuals. As a psychotherapist who...Read More

Introduction As a therapist dedicated to providing compassionate and inclusive mental health support to Two Spirit, trans, nonbinary, and queer adults, I was eager to delve into Relationally Queer by Silva Neves and Dominic Davies. This book, part of the Pink Therapy series, is a groundbreaking exploration of gender, sex,...Read More

We’ve all been there – finding ourselves in situations where we’ve struggled with setting and maintaining boundaries with our friends. It’s a normal part of life, and we all face challenges when it comes to navigating our relationships. Sometimes we may feel guilty for saying no or worry about the...Read More

Transphobia is a pervasive issue that targets transgender, nonbinary, and gender-nonconforming individuals. It’s crucial for allies to recognize and address transphobia when they encounter it. In this blog post, we’ll discuss what transphobia is, how to recognize it and provide practical advice on how to confront transphobic attitudes and actions....Read More

Establishing healthy boundaries is a crucial aspect of maintaining one’s well-being, especially for transgender, nonbinary, and gender-expansive individuals. It can be challenging to set boundaries with family members who do not support our identities or treat us with respect, as they are often the ones who are closest to us....Read More

For centuries, trans*, queer, and disabled communities have found a sense of comfort, care, and compassion through the forming of a “chosen family.” While TV shows like The L Word show us the appeal of chosen family, we are never explicitly taught how to build an affirming sense of what...Read More

Introduction As society continues to evolve, so too do the ways we navigate love and relationships. Consensual non-monogamy is becoming increasingly common, with studies showing that approximately 1 in 5 people in North America have engaged in some form of non-monogamous relationship, whether through polyamory, open relationships, or other ethically...Read More